How to Choose the Perfect Engagement Ring: A Jeweller’s Expert Guide

An engagement ring is one of the most significant purchases you will ever make. It’s a symbol of love, commitment, and the start of a new journey together. With so many options available, choosing the perfect ring can feel overwhelming. At Taylor & Co, we’re here to guide you through the process and help you find a ring that perfectly reflects your love story.

1. Set a Budget

Before you start shopping, it’s important to determine your budget. While tradition suggests spending a certain amount, the most important factor is choosing a ring that feels right for you. Setting a realistic budget will help narrow down your choices and ensure you get the best value for your money. It is also important to consider additional future costs, such as insurance and maintenance when making your decision. 

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2. Choose the Right Diamond or Gemstone

The centre stone is the heart of an engagement ring, and understanding the different options will help you make an informed choice.

The Four Cs of Diamonds

  • Cut: The cut of a diamond determines its brilliance. A well-cut diamond will sparkle beautifully, regardless of its size.
  • Colour: Diamonds are graded from D (colourless) to Z (light yellow or brown). The closer to D, the rarer and more valuable the diamond.
  • Clarity: Clarity measures the presence of natural inclusions. The fewer the inclusions, the more flawless the diamond appears.
  • Carat: This refers to the weight of the diamond. While larger diamonds are often more desirable, a well-cut smaller diamond can be just as stunning.

When choosing a diamond, consider the balance between these factors. A slightly lower colour or clarity grade can still yield a beautiful diamond if the cut is excellent.

Lab-Grown vs. Natural Diamonds

Lab-grown diamonds are an ethical, budget-friendly alternative to natural diamonds. They offer the same brilliance and durability at a lower cost. Natural diamonds, on the other hand, are prized for their rarity as they have been formed over billions of years. Whether you prefer the sustainability of a lab-grown diamond or the timeless appeal of a natural one, Taylor & Co offers a stunning selection to suit your preferences. Learn more about our lab-grown diamond collection.

Alternative Gemstones

For a unique touch, consider alternative gemstones such as sapphires, emeralds, or rubies. These stones add personality and a pop of colour to an engagement ring and can be just as durable as diamonds. Some gemstones, such as Moissanite, offer exceptional brilliance and affordability, making them an excellent choice for modern engagement rings.

3. Pick the Perfect Setting

The setting is what holds the diamond or gemstone in place and plays a huge role in the ring’s overall style and durability. There are many setting types to choose from including: 

  • Solitaire: A classic and timeless choice that showcases the beauty of a single stone.
  • Halo: Surrounds the centre stone with smaller diamonds for added sparkle.
  • Trilogy: Symbolising the past, present, and future of your relationship.
  • Vintage-Inspired: Intricate details and filigree for a romantic, antique look.
  • Modern & Minimalist: Sleek, clean lines for a contemporary feel.

Your lifestyle should also influence your choice of setting. If you lead an active lifestyle you may wish to consider a bezel or flush setting to protect the stone from damage. Browse our stunning engagement ring settings here.

4. Consider Metal Options

The choice of metal affects the durability, appearance and cost of the ring. Common options include:

  • Platinum: Highly durable and hypoallergenic with a naturally white sheen.
  • White Gold: A popular, elegant choice with a similar appearance to platinum.
  • Yellow Gold: Classic and timeless, offering a warm, rich glow.
  • Rose Gold: Romantic and unique, with a soft pink hue.

Each metal has its own advantages. Platinum, for instance, requires less maintenance than white gold, which may need periodic rhodium plating to maintain its brightness. You may also wish to consider your partner’s existing jewellery or accessory hardware preferences to choose a metal that complements their style.

5. Get the Right Ring Size

Ensuring the perfect fit is essential. If you’re unsure of your partner’s ring size, you can discreetly borrow a ring they wear on their ring finger or use our ring size guide

6. Personalise Your Ring

Make your ring even more special with personal touches:

  • Engraving: Add a meaningful date, initials, or a short message inside the band.
  • Bespoke Design: Work with our expert jewellers to create a completely custom ring.
  • Hidden Gemstones: Some couples choose to add a birthstone or secret diamond inside the band for an extra sentimental touch.

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7. Think About Long-Term Care

An engagement ring is designed to last a lifetime, so proper care is essential. Regular cleaning, professional inspections, and safe storage will ensure your ring remains in pristine condition.

  • Cleaning: Use a soft brush and mild soap to gently clean your ring at home.
  • Professional Maintenance: Have your ring checked periodically to ensure the prongs and settings remain secure.
  • Insurance: Consider insuring your engagement ring to protect it against loss, theft, or damage.

8. Shop with Confidence

When purchasing an engagement ring, always buy from a trusted jeweller that provides certifications and guarantees. At Taylor & Co, we pride ourselves on offering ethically sourced, high-quality diamonds and expert craftsmanship. We provide GIA certification for our diamonds that are over a carat, ensuring their authenticity and quality.

Find the Perfect Engagement Ring at Taylor & Co

Choosing the perfect engagement ring is a deeply personal journey, and we’re here to help every step of the way. Whether you’re drawn to timeless elegance or modern designs, our collection has something for every love story.

Start your journey by exploring our exquisite engagement rings here, or book a consultation with our expert jewellers for personalised guidance. Let us help you create a ring that tells your unique love story.

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